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Is it disgusting to marry or date family members and family friends?
Topic Started: Feb 12 2017, 07:30 AM (1,933 Views)
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Feb 13 2017, 04:49 AM
Well, you can have up to 3 brothers or sisters, which is a total of 4-5 kids in the household. Family friends and cousins, you can have as many as you want. Some people even have 40-50 cousins.
Is there a law where you live where a couple can't have more than 4-5 kids? I know China has a law like that, where you only can have 2.
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No idea. I live in New York.
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Feb 13 2017, 04:25 AM
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Feb 13 2017, 04:24 AM
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Feb 13 2017, 04:22 AM
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Feb 13 2017, 04:19 AM
So you consider friends of your parents family friends, but not your own friends family friends? I call my most closest friends family friends because they are friendly with my family and vise versa.
Why would I call my friends family friends? Their parents don't have a relationship with my parents or any elder relatives in my family at all.
The term "family friend" is very broad and depends on the person. In your case, a 'family friend' needs to be friends of your parents. That's not necessarily true in my case.
My culture is like that. But anyone who is very close with your parents is someone you have to put up with on the same level as your parents.
Yeah I suppose culture has an influence.

Funnily enough, in my culture it's the opposite and parents usually try to set you up with family friend's kids.
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Here usually people can be close enough that you can call your dads friend your uncle or you can be "like brother and sister" with the kids of family friends.

But nobody really cares if family friends date because they're not actually blood related, most of the disgust towards dating family is the whole genetic aspect.

Any two people can love each other, blood relatives having or risking having deformed kids is just irresponsible.



And as for the whole like brother and sister thing, usually the parents want them to get together eventually once they get to that age.

I see nothing wrong with that.
If I had a daughter and my best friend had a son who was a nice dude I'd definitely want them to get together rather than some kid I don't know who could be a total a***** that knocks my daughter up and leaves her.
No reason to take the risk when you can be a positive influence on two good children who are great friends.

Of course you shouldn't try force them to be together.
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depends how hot they are.
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I don't see why I would be disgusting for my past actions with my Mother's friends, they were down, I was down. Ain't no baby makin' happenin', it was either that or I go to the house for the elderly.
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What are you guys talking about? Incest is great.

Family friends are even better. No risk of birth defects, and you can still have sex with your dad.
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Feb 12 2017, 07:30 AM
What are your thoughts about dating or marrying a family member? Are you okay with it or do you think it's totally gross and wrong? What about dating/marrying family friends? Do you think it's just as wrong and disgusting as dating/marrying a family member?
family friends? Like if I would date the friend of the family. Guess its okay until you and that friend dont have dna relation.


Other than that dating / having sex with close family members is considered as incest in most countries and you will be punished for it. And also its not socially acceptable.


However I have read that second cousins have little chance to have offsprings with defected gene.



But anyway the pond is huge and there are a lot of fish there. Go and date someone who is not related to you at all.
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Yeah I think it's wrong, but it'll probably be legal eventually.
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Feb 12 2017, 07:30 AM
What are your thoughts about dating or marrying a family member? Are you okay with it or do you think it's totally gross and wrong? What about dating/marrying family friends? Do you think it's just as wrong and disgusting as dating/marrying a family member?
It's wrong and disgusting now, but give it a few more years and it'll be the new "norm"

Edited by Political Piper, Feb 15 2017, 12:37 AM.


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Feb 15 2017, 12:34 AM
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Feb 12 2017, 07:30 AM
What are your thoughts about dating or marrying a family member? Are you okay with it or do you think it's totally gross and wrong? What about dating/marrying family friends? Do you think it's just as wrong and disgusting as dating/marrying a family member?
It's wrong and disgusting now, but give it a few more years and it'll be the new "norm"

Indeed, we're on the fast track to Sodom and Gommorah. Soon we'll be raping angels and we can put it on snapchat. f***ing liberals.
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Feb 13 2017, 02:26 PM
It's gross, just absolutely GROSS!!
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Feb 15 2017, 12:34 AM
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Feb 12 2017, 07:30 AM
What are your thoughts about dating or marrying a family member? Are you okay with it or do you think it's totally gross and wrong? What about dating/marrying family friends? Do you think it's just as wrong and disgusting as dating/marrying a family member?
It's wrong and disgusting now, but give it a few more years and it'll be the new "norm"

Sure, because homosexuality and interracial sex is the norm right now. Why would it become the norm?

And if by 'the norm' you mean 'considered ok' (which is not the same thing btw) then still, why do you care? Consenting adults.
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I feel like it's an odd thing to argue for but I'm sure people probably felt the same way about interracial and homosexual couples, many still do and many are still against both.


If you remove the context of what it's about then the argument against it is exactly the same as homosexuality/interracial coupling.
"It's wrong and disgusting!" "People shouldn't be allowed to do that!" "God forbids it" etc etc

Yes, incest is a bit on the "weird" side but so long as nobody is being manipulated in to it and the people are responsible enough to not have children, does it really hurt anyone?


That said I don't believe it should be encouraged just that if it happens the people shouldn't be vilified for how they feel. It's not a good idea to encourage family members to get attached in that way because you can't count on them to move on and not end up having children with defects.
Obviously that doesn't happen 100% of the time but the risk is substantial enough that I think we can agree it's not really okay to just take the chance willy nilly.


The whole children side of it is a bit of a faulty argument to completely base it on anyway 'cause...well surely that means lesbians and homosexual men are totally fine as couples if related? No risk of kids there other than biological miracle...must be fine then.
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Feb 15 2017, 12:55 PM
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Feb 13 2017, 02:26 PM
It's gross, just absolutely GROSS!!
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Feb 15 2017, 12:34 AM
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Feb 12 2017, 07:30 AM
What are your thoughts about dating or marrying a family member? Are you okay with it or do you think it's totally gross and wrong? What about dating/marrying family friends? Do you think it's just as wrong and disgusting as dating/marrying a family member?
It's wrong and disgusting now, but give it a few more years and it'll be the new "norm"

Sure, because homosexuality and interracial sex is the norm right now. Why would it become the norm?

And if by 'the norm' you mean 'considered ok' (which is not the same thing btw) then still, why do you care? Consenting adults.
I don't care. I find it disgusting, but you could marry a llama named Janice and I still wouldn't care. Just my personal opinion which we are allowed to express. 1st Amendment.

By norm I mean we will idolize someone and call them a hero for expressing their love for a blood relative. The same way we praised Bruce Jenner, the same we have praised many others. Gay was considered abnormal back in the day and now it's looked upon with idolization. Likewise transgender, now facebook has over 60 gender options and students can pick their own pronouns in many school. They even created a show where queer guys help straight guys dress. Does this bother me? No. I don't care what people do with their bodies, I believe the Government shouldn't force anyone to do something that violates their civil liberties. As long as individual liberty is maintained and not at the expense of someone else's liberty then I say have it.

You all forget that I'm primarily left on social issues. But yes, it's deemed wrong now but give it a few years and people will praise the first famous, public, incestual couple.


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